high neck wedding dresses

I need a dress for a black tie wedding and I can't think outside of sequins. Ladies I need your style advice as I don't know how not to dress in sequins (obviously sequins not appropriate). Not interested in renting a dress, as I plan to have round 2 in it by inviting myself to a ball this year. Inspiration please... think 90s high neck cute, to the floor.. backless maybe? Thanks as always. high neck wedding dresses